Gender Wiser
Coaching & Consulting
Coaching
for
Individuals
What issues are important to you?
Design Your Own Journey
Topics for Sessions
60 or 90 minute sessions
Multiple session discounts available
Gender Expression
Exploring expression and embodiment through guided reflection and experimentation. Trying new names, pronouns, clothing, mannerisms, voice, or presentation
Identity
Clarifying your identities. Making sense of your feelings and experiences, the options and labels, and social complications related to gender, sexual orientation, and other intersecting identities
Deepening gender knowledge
Understanding LGBTQI spectrums - the relationships among sex, gender, sexual orientation for deeper self-understanding and more effective communication in social interactions
Coming out: Developing language and scripts for coming out
Finding words that feel authentic for conversations with family, friends, partners, coworkers, or community members
Coming out: Understanding emotional reactions you and others might experience
Navigating the mix of excitement, fear, relief, grief, and other feelings that can accompany coming out
Coming out: Navigating practical considerations
Planning for workplace communication, privacy issues, social media choices, or religious and cultural contexts
Transition: Clarifying your transition path
Sorting through possibilities, understanding what types of transition feel right for you, exploring the options
Transition: Preparing for social transition
Navigating conversations with family, coworkers, friends, or community members; developing language for correcting misgendering; and building self-advocacy skills
Transition: Navigating complex gender affirming practices and services
Learning how medical, legal, and bureaucratic processes work, what your options are, and how to prepare for appointments
Job seeking and interviewing
Building confidence, exploring presentation choices, navigating sex and name fields on forms, responding to misgendering, and assessing whether a workplace is LGBTQ-affirming
Educational and professional environments
Navigating interpersonal relationships and bureaucratic systems, addressing misgendering or bias, communicating needs to faculty, supervisors, or HR, understanding policies and protections, and developing strategies to advocate for yourself
Dating and relationship. Exploring relationships and intimacy
Re-imagining connection, dating, or sexuality, from an affirming lens, as you come into a fuller understanding of yourself
Resilience and coping
Building resilience and coping strategies. Developing tools for handling microaggressions, harassment, dysphoria, rejection, challenging relationships, and institutionalized hurdles
Religion and spirituality: Navigating belief, belonging, and identity
Sorting through personal beliefs, reconciling religious teachings with lived identity, navigating family or community expectations and conversations, finding affirming communities
Community: Finding or building affirming community
Locating affirming spaces, supportive groups, and resources. Finding a sense of connection that aligns with your identity and needs
Community: Understanding LGBTQ+ culture and community norms
Learning community language, social cues, and cultural practices in a welcoming, shame-free environment.
Know your rights
Information on federal attacks on LGBTQ+ rights, federal and state protections, and corresponding current bureaucratic practices (ID gender markers, gender affirming care, name and gender marker changes, trans athletes, title IX, parental rights, bathroom and facility access)
Other issues that are important for you!